It has been a year since I put up this blog but I have not posted as much as I wanted to. LOL! Maybe because I don't have a lot of time to do it or I don't have something to blog about (but actually I have so many things on my mind). The main reason I have decided to start this blog is to have something to get myself busy with. Basically I wanted to write things about life, love, and heartaches. I know I am not really good in writing though. Hahaha. Looking back, all I wanted is to be happy and at this point, I can say I truly am.
For the past year, I have learned that getting burned once should not keep you from being cynical about love and relationships, however, I've also learned that you should not depend your own happiness with other people. We should find it within ourselves. Don't rush things just to be in a relationship; don't be fooled by the thought of just having someone as your boyfriend (or girlfriend) will give you the happiness you truly deserve because it will not. You have to know yourself first; with who you really are and what you want. Being single is not the end of the world, it is actually a call to focus on yourself.
"Love is something that is not just a feeling of hearts beating fast. Ito ay isang powerful thing na dapat ay nakakapagdulot ng positive change sa isang tao and it should bring out the best in a person. Nakakapagbigay ng tamang direksyon sa buhay at ng lasting happiness. You may not get it on your first try but don’t be afraid to try again. Tandaan natin na after every dark night comes a beautiful morning sunlight to give us hope of a better and brighter day." — Sarah Geronimo
So yeah, back to the situation I am in right now, I can say I did not give up and that I have moved on. I know I am much stronger and I believe in love now more than ever. Life is a balance - when there is darkness, there is light.